Some out there live to confront others when they perceive wrongdoing. They point to scripture as their "instruction" to do so. This is an error of the greatest magnitude. This is misrepresentation of scripture - Satan's biggest tool!
I talked about same in part one of this mini-series. Let's get a little deeper here. By going simply.
God's will for us is not constant confrontation but to live at peace and only confront if necessary. This is demonstrated in Romans 12. I'll put the spotlight on Romans 12:18, but this will link to the entire chapter, as it is all relevant.
Romans 12:18 -
The entire chapter is devoted to living in peace with our fellow man. It is not Christian to go around, pretending (or actually feeling) constant offense so that we may move from confrontation to confrontation. It is God's will that we live in peace. The concept of "turning the other cheek" (Matthew 5:39) applies here, as does the concept of "a soft answer turns away wrath" (Proverbs 15:1).If possible, to the best of your ability, live at peace with all people.
Confrontation
So, is there a time and place to confront another about sin?
Simple answer: Yes.
But not nearly as much as so many "Christians" want.
It would seem Christ wants us to focus so much more on forgiveness. Confrontation makes forgiveness difficult.
Is this a passive-aggressice approach?
Nope. It is Christ's instruction for us.
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I always focus on the "to the best of your ability" aspect.
ReplyDeleteIt isn't to the best of the other guy's ability to follow the rules but my ability to know when to say something (very rare) and when to keep quiet (very often).
Unless it is a salvation issue and I have a relationship with that person that allows a meaningful conversation, I really shouldn't say anything. Something about motes and planks comes to mind.
Well said, bob. As always.
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