This one laments on social media that her ex is to marry a "20-something blonde," less than two years after their divorce. Some thoughts:
You asked for this.
Women initiate 75% of divorces. You did.
He is an idiot.
I'll agree, but not for the same reason. He's an idiot because he got married again.
You're jealous #1
You've hit the wall, and you know it. Being 40 didn't help. Gaining 50+ pounds since age 35 didn't help. Looking 10 years older in the past 2 years didn't help.
You're jealous #2
He's happy and you aren't.
You're jealous #3
He has and you have not. How is that minimum wage job working out for you?
It didn't turn out like you wanted.
Divorce is not a life improvement for anyone, but it takes a harder toll on women. Yet, women engage in all sorts of divorce porn - the pedestalizing of divorce. You wanted to hurt him - and make no mistake, you did hurt him - you just hurt yourself worse. Divorce is a scorched earth policy.