Being a Father in 2025

By -
Seen on social media:

The 7 Lies They Told You About Being a Good Dad 

Let’s rip the bandage off. Being a father in 2025 isn’t about love. It’s about loss. 
Loss of voice. 
Loss of control. 
Loss of dignity. 

Because while the world claims to celebrate “good dads,” it actually rewards lies, silence, and servitude. Here are the 7 biggest lies they told you: 

1. “If You Stay, She’ll Stay Too” You were told to be present. To be loyal. To show up. So you did. You stayed through the fights. Through the cold nights. Through the passive-aggressive silence. But guess what? She still left. And the courts still took her side. Because staying isn’t security anymore. It’s just a stage for betrayal.

2. “If You Love Her Right, She Won’t Cheat” You gave her everything. You loved her. You supported her. You protected her. But love doesn’t stop entitlement. She still wanted “space.” She still flirted for attention. She still claimed she was “unfulfilled.” You gave her peace. She missed chaos. 

3. “If You Work Hard, Your Kids Will Thank You” You missed birthdays to pay for tuition. You skipped sleep to keep the lights on. You carried weight they’ll never understand. And when they grow up? They remember who made pancakes. Not who paid rent. They post “happy Mother’s Day” tributes— And forget the man who sold his life for their future. 

4. “If You Co-Parent Peacefully, She Will Too” You tried. You texted calmly. You sent gifts. You respected boundaries. She? She poisoned their minds. She used them as leverage. She turned parenting into warfare. And now your kid thinks you abandoned them— because her story was louder than your effort. 

5. “If You Show Emotion, She’ll Appreciate You” You opened up. You cried. You shared. She called it weakness. She used it in arguments. She mocked you behind your back. She told her friends, “He’s too soft for me.” You weren’t being vulnerable. You were handing her ammunition. 

6. “If You Stay Married, You’ll Keep the Family Together” Wrong. The family only stays if she’s happy. One bad mood. One new coworker. One therapy session that blames you for everything… And she files for divorce— With full custody, alimony, and a side of reputation damage. You stayed faithful. She stayed calculating. 

7. “Being a Good Dad Is Enough” No, it’s not. Not in this world. Not when the system is against you. The culture is confused. And masculinity is on trial. You can do everything right and still lose your kids, your house, your savings—your sanity. Because in this generation? Being a good dad doesn’t protect you. It only makes you more visible when they come to collect. 

Final Word: 
Be a Father—But Be a Smart One Love your kids. But protect your seed. 
Document everything. 
Build with clarity, not emotion. 
Because the system doesn’t reward your loyalty. It punishes your silence. And no matter how “present” you are… One lie, one mood, one courtroom—and you’re erased. So stay strong. But stay wise. Because modern fatherhood is not for the naïve. It’s for the men who lead with vision, protection, and backup plans. — ELONAIRES

Comments

Post a Comment

Your comment will be displayed after approval.
Approval depends on what you say and how you say it.

Popular posts from this blog

This Will Trigger The Weak

By -
Image
Seen on Social Media: Your Wife Is Your First Daughter—Treat Her Like a Baby, Or She’ll Break Your Home Let’s scatter the woke table: Your wife is not your equal. She’s not your therapist. And she’s definitely not your homeboy. She’s your first daughter—emotionally, mentally, and psychologically. And the moment you start expecting her to “reason like a man” or “carry half the weight,” you’ve already lost. The modern man is confused. He's told to be vulnerable, yet punished when he shows weakness. Told to be “emotionally available,” yet abandoned when he starts crying like a choirboy. Let’s get this straight: Women were designed to be nurtured. Not negotiated with. Let’s break it down like a real father would. — 1. Every Woman Is a Grown Baby Looking for Emotional Security She’ll talk tough. She’ll claim she’s independent. But when the bills land or the pressure hits? She’s curled up in your arms, needing your shoulder—and your wallet. Why? Because biologically, her system runs on h...
Read more

Polar Opposites

By -
Image
My friend, Lefty, had a darn good post a couple of days ago. Let's go into why it was such a good post.  Meeting Your Polar Opposite Polar Opposites For starters, people who cannot see past the surface might notice that Lefty is a self-described introvert. This author is a self-described extrovert. That would be "polar opposite."  Climate Change Next up, Lefty made the post, which has many references to the farce that is the claim of manmade climate change. Not only that, but Lefty's post was on March 12. That date marked 32 years since the Blizzard of '93 hit most of Tennessee. In that blizzard, Chattanooga got 18 inches of snow in 12 hours - I know because I was living there at the time. Were such an event to happen today, the Leftists would be screaming bloody-murder about manmade climate change.  Chemtrails Last part that made Lefty's post so good was he took a swing at the folks on the right who believe in chemtrails. For clarity, my conspiracy-theorist ...
Read more

The Problem With Many Modern Women

By -
Image
Seen on X, from Richard Cooper - here, pasted text in case Blogger inexplicably deletes the image as they have done so many times in the past: "In the not so distant past, she was wifey material if she was: A virgin Tattoo free  Had good family  Feminine  Under 25  Religious  Had homemaking skills  Agreeable  Could cook & clean  Wanted his children  Most brides today are none of those things." Here we will give an example of what most modern women are like in italics below Cooper's list of marriageable qualities.  Marriageable qualities vs. Reality: A virgin Been with 100+ men (whatever number they tell you, multiply it by 9, at the least.)  Tattoo free  Many tattoos.  Had good family  Comes from single mother only home where the mother did not allow the father into the children's lives.  Feminine  Feminist Under 25  Over 30, with declining fertility.  Religious  "Spiritual" (meaning wil...
Read more