Put It Into Action

Recently, a reader wrote in and asked for advice dealing with people. His question was one that gets asked in many circles, over and over. The reader is a nice guy, has a good job, but doesn't do so well with the ladies. He asked what he could do differently to attract women instead of repulse them. Evidently, he has no problem getting a first date, but has difficulty finding that elusive second date.

My response shall take place all this week - and has implications far beyond the question at hand. Understand these simple points, and you can drastically improve your position in life.

Speaking of life, we must look at the four basic categories of life: mental, physical, social, and spiritual. Ignore one at your own peril. All of the facts and advice over the next week will revolve around these categories.


I've heard other men say time and again that women play games. That may be true from a certain point of view, but when you understand the simple rules, they are very much child's play. Same is true of sales: I've heard many a "salesman" say that selling such-and-such is hard or impossible... when my numbers were through the roof. In the end, it's all about how you go through life.

If you go through life a victim, allowing life to happen to you, then you will get what you earn.
If you go through life taking half the opportunities and making the other half of the opportunities, well...

So:

1. Learn to converse well. Actively listen. Obey the rule of 3:2.
2. Avoid the pitfalls of conversation.
3. Make your mission (successful dating) your priority, not her.
4. Be self confident. 
5. Utilize her emotions to your benefit. 

But, these are all the social categories. What about the others?
Mental - you just learned something.
Physical - I said it in the first post - don't allow yourself to be obese.
Spiritual - I said it in the first post again - don't talk religion on the first few dates.



The real trick
You'll read this, and you won't put it into action. You'll make excuses why not.  Meanwhile, my quota shall be shattered year after year with minimal effort. The few men who put these simple techniques into use will continue to date whomever they want whenever they want. And you'll have your excuses to keep you company.

The trick is... getting motivated enough to put it into action.
Just.
That.
Simple.


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