RECCE ROOM

Over the last few days / weeks, several YouTube gun channels have announced they are parting ways with the USCCA. This made me take notice, because I am a USCCA member, and a USCCA partner. For clarity, I am a USCCA partner, since 2019. I receive a small amount of a finder’s fee when one of their reps is permitted to present at one of my classes. I do not partner with USCCA because I make hundreds of thousands in referral fees…I partner with USCCA because I believe in the product and I believe it is needed.  Also for the record, I am a licensed P&C agent. I have worked in insurance since 2006. I researched policy language for USCCA, US Law Shield, and CCW Safe prior to reaching out to any of them for partnership. And that’s the other thing: they didn’t reach out to me first, offering money. I reached out to them. That said, all three of these companies have improved by leaps and bounds in the past 5-6 years. Competition breeds success. And no, the USCCA is not perfect. There we...

As a continuation of this post from yesterday. A man must correct a woman he loves, because, ACCOUNTABILITY. Here are some tips on how to do that without "hurting her feelings." Because women, as emotional beings, will invariably seek out a way to react emotionally to being held accountable. If you as a man fail this "shit-test," then she will not be accountable, and you will have demonstrated a chink in the armor of your ability to lead.  First, you must approach this as though you are speaking with a child who is mentally about the age range of 11 - 14 or so. This author uses that as a default when dealing with women. The VERY FEW women who are mentally AND emotionally able to communicate at an age range above that are also immediately understanding when you start that way - no explanation will be necessary. They know most of their peers operate in that mentality.  Second, you must explain to them first, in very plain language, what you are doing and what you ar...

From this post yesterday,  "Men, stop enabling chaos. If a woman rejects correction, walk away. She’s not ready for accountability, and without accountability no love." Powerful statement.  If a woman cannot accept correction, she is not coachable.  If a woman is not coachable, she is not accustomed to accountability.  You cannot teach her accountability.  Because she will not accept accountability, she will invariably bring chaos.  Men who want long term relationships invariably seek peace. Chaos is the opposite of peace.  Ironically, it is men in the "player" community who understand this best, and will not commit to a woman of chaos.  What say you? Yes, I know you can think of an exception. Once more, I'll remind you of two facts: 1. The exception proves the rule.  2. If you hear a generalization, and your first instinct is to think of an exception, that means you failed the IQ test. You demonstrate inability to think in abstract terms....

Seen on social media: A MAN ONLY CORRECTS A WOMAN HE LOVES Here’s a truth many won’t admit: Men only correct the women they love. If you’re sitting back, watching a woman spiral into chaos without stepping in, you don’t love her—you’re just there for convenience. Real love isn’t about passive acceptance. It’s about stepping up, holding her accountable, and guiding her toward becoming her best self. If you’re not doing that, it’s because you either don’t care about her future or you’re too afraid to face the backlash. A man with no long-term plans for a woman will let her “do anyhow.” He’ll sit quietly while she dresses half-naked, drinks recklessly, smokes, or acts wild because he’s not invested in her future—he’s just there for the short-term thrill. He doesn’t see her as a partner; he sees her as a temporary distraction. The sad part? Many women prefer this. They mistake his silence for love, thinking his lack of guidance is acceptance. But here’s the harsh reality: a man who doesn’t...

Found on social media.  And, for the record, in case Blogger inexplicably removes this photo, as they have done so many times in the past, here is the transcript of the meme: "Two things that black women need to lose in order to attract quality marriage-minded men: - Lose the weight.  &  - Lose the attitude Black women are disproportionately obese and are known for being attitudinal & difficult. The good news is that these are fixable problems." Of note: these things are certainly true of other women of all races, particularly Western women. However, the meme correctly points out that black women have these problems disproportionately. For example, of white women, the only ones that exhibit these choices on a mass scale are Liberal women. Conservative women tend to avoid these choices more often.  What say you? Yes, I know you can think of an exception. Once more, I'll remind you of two facts: 1. The exception proves the rule.  2. If you hear a generaliz...

Another year is almost in the books. Planning for 2025 on the business front is virtually complete. My business had the best year it has ever had. Nevertheless, I will not be resting on my laurels. New material and changes coming for 2025. Among them: There will be a shotgun class. Depending on its popularity, there may be more. As of the writing of this post, several ticket purchases had already been made for this one.  There will be a revolver class. Depending on its popularity, there may be more. As of the writing of this post, no ticket purchases, yet. Time will tell.  Bringing back Long Range Patrol. This may be its final year. However, many students in Urban Rifleman state they want to take it. Also, several outside sources have also stated the same. This class has had exactly 4 participants each of the last 3 years. Typically, a class needs six participants for it to be viable.