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Seen on social media: The 7 Lies They Told You About Being a Good Dad  Let’s rip the bandage off. Being a father in 2025 isn’t about love. It’s about loss.  Loss of voice.  Loss of control.  Loss of dignity.  Because while the world claims to celebrate “good dads,” it actually rewards lies, silence, and servitude. Here are the 7 biggest lies they told you:  1. “If You Stay, She’ll Stay Too” You were told to be present. To be loyal. To show up. So you did. You stayed through the fights. Through the cold nights. Through the passive-aggressive silence. But guess what? She still left. And the courts still took her side. Because staying isn’t security anymore. It’s just a stage for betrayal. 2. “If You Love Her Right, She Won’t Cheat” You gave her everything. You loved her. You supported her. You protected her. But love doesn’t stop entitlement. She still wanted “space.” She still flirted for attention. She still claimed she was “unfulfilled.” You gave her peac...

Seen on Social Media: Your Wife Is Your First Daughter—Treat Her Like a Baby, Or She’ll Break Your Home Let’s scatter the woke table: Your wife is not your equal. She’s not your therapist. And she’s definitely not your homeboy. She’s your first daughter—emotionally, mentally, and psychologically. And the moment you start expecting her to “reason like a man” or “carry half the weight,” you’ve already lost. The modern man is confused. He's told to be vulnerable, yet punished when he shows weakness. Told to be “emotionally available,” yet abandoned when he starts crying like a choirboy. Let’s get this straight: Women were designed to be nurtured. Not negotiated with. Let’s break it down like a real father would. — 1. Every Woman Is a Grown Baby Looking for Emotional Security She’ll talk tough. She’ll claim she’s independent. But when the bills land or the pressure hits? She’s curled up in your arms, needing your shoulder—and your wallet. Why? Because biologically, her system runs on h...

Seen on X, from Richard Cooper - here, pasted text in case Blogger inexplicably deletes the image as they have done so many times in the past: "In the not so distant past, she was wifey material if she was: A virgin Tattoo free  Had good family  Feminine  Under 25  Religious  Had homemaking skills  Agreeable  Could cook & clean  Wanted his children  Most brides today are none of those things." Here we will give an example of what most modern women are like in italics below Cooper's list of marriageable qualities.  Marriageable qualities vs. Reality: A virgin Been with 100+ men (whatever number they tell you, multiply it by 9, at the least.)  Tattoo free  Many tattoos.  Had good family  Comes from single mother only home where the mother did not allow the father into the children's lives.  Feminine  Feminist Under 25  Over 30, with declining fertility.  Religious  "Spiritual" (meaning wil...

As a continuation of this post from yesterday. A man must correct a woman he loves, because, ACCOUNTABILITY. Here are some tips on how to do that without "hurting her feelings." Because women, as emotional beings, will invariably seek out a way to react emotionally to being held accountable. If you as a man fail this "shit-test," then she will not be accountable, and you will have demonstrated a chink in the armor of your ability to lead.  First, you must approach this as though you are speaking with a child who is mentally about the age range of 11 - 14 or so. This author uses that as a default when dealing with women. The VERY FEW women who are mentally AND emotionally able to communicate at an age range above that are also immediately understanding when you start that way - no explanation will be necessary. They know most of their peers operate in that mentality.  Second, you must explain to them first, in very plain language, what you are doing and what you ar...

From this post yesterday,  "Men, stop enabling chaos. If a woman rejects correction, walk away. She’s not ready for accountability, and without accountability no love." Powerful statement.  If a woman cannot accept correction, she is not coachable.  If a woman is not coachable, she is not accustomed to accountability.  You cannot teach her accountability.  Because she will not accept accountability, she will invariably bring chaos.  Men who want long term relationships invariably seek peace. Chaos is the opposite of peace.  Ironically, it is men in the "player" community who understand this best, and will not commit to a woman of chaos.  What say you? Yes, I know you can think of an exception. Once more, I'll remind you of two facts: 1. The exception proves the rule.  2. If you hear a generalization, and your first instinct is to think of an exception, that means you failed the IQ test. You demonstrate inability to think in abstract terms....

Seen on social media: A MAN ONLY CORRECTS A WOMAN HE LOVES Here’s a truth many won’t admit: Men only correct the women they love. If you’re sitting back, watching a woman spiral into chaos without stepping in, you don’t love her—you’re just there for convenience. Real love isn’t about passive acceptance. It’s about stepping up, holding her accountable, and guiding her toward becoming her best self. If you’re not doing that, it’s because you either don’t care about her future or you’re too afraid to face the backlash. A man with no long-term plans for a woman will let her “do anyhow.” He’ll sit quietly while she dresses half-naked, drinks recklessly, smokes, or acts wild because he’s not invested in her future—he’s just there for the short-term thrill. He doesn’t see her as a partner; he sees her as a temporary distraction. The sad part? Many women prefer this. They mistake his silence for love, thinking his lack of guidance is acceptance. But here’s the harsh reality: a man who doesn’t...

Found on social media.  And, for the record, in case Blogger inexplicably removes this photo, as they have done so many times in the past, here is the transcript of the meme: "Two things that black women need to lose in order to attract quality marriage-minded men: - Lose the weight.  &  - Lose the attitude Black women are disproportionately obese and are known for being attitudinal & difficult. The good news is that these are fixable problems." Of note: these things are certainly true of other women of all races, particularly Western women. However, the meme correctly points out that black women have these problems disproportionately. For example, of white women, the only ones that exhibit these choices on a mass scale are Liberal women. Conservative women tend to avoid these choices more often.  What say you? Yes, I know you can think of an exception. Once more, I'll remind you of two facts: 1. The exception proves the rule.  2. If you hear a generaliz...

 Due to hypergamy, women always marry up.  There has been an ongoing sentiment for as long as this author can remember that women who do not marry by XX age (usually 28, 30, 35, etc.) have to "settle" for a man so they can get married. There is so much in that statement alone to unpack, but the focus of this post will be how that statement is completely at odds with the concept of hypergamy. So which is true?  Hypergamy is true, and women settle when they marry - both statements are 100% accurate and correct.  The reason they can both be correct? Most women do not have an accurate assessment of their "market value." The "settling" comes when the woman realizes that her market value cannot earn a higher level man. She is not settling on the man - she is settling on her market value!  There is an article out at Medium that dances all around this fact, but won't say it. A few misquotes from the article and some corrections: As those women age, their dati...

 A reader asks: "Would you suggest a woman get a degree or get married, assuming the two were mutually exclusive?" Great question. And there are several layers to unpack.  First - most college degrees are somewhat useless.  Second - the primary argument given by feminists as to why a woman needs a degree is for a backup plan in case their man leaves them. This is a very problematic argument - arguing to the extreme as opposed to the norm. This blog has established that 80% of divorces are initiated by women, and another 16% are initiated by men whose wives displayed infidelity.  It would be wiser for women to focus on staying married to their husbands and not cheating on them. Then there is only a 4% chance of divorce!  Summary This blog cannot, in good conscience, suggest anyone get a college degree without a distinct and proven plan to use it. Think doctor, nurse, accountant, lawyer, engineer, and not much else .  Given that, and given the unlikely nat...

Normally, just one reason should suffice, so pick from the nine reasons below why you should not date a single mom. This article inspired by an article online that tries to make the opposite points - why one should date a single mom. Of note, this author observes that among the thousands of single moms encountered, only one was a single mom due to husband's death (in the military - and he is thanked for  his service). The rest of the single moms encountered were so by their own design. The nine points and this blog's counter-points: 1. Weak men can’t handle us or our kids (Notice the shaming tactic and the psychological projection) The complaint is centered around a hypothetical toddler having an outburst and a man "unable to handle it." The reality so often is a 10-year-old having the same type of an outburst and the man she wishes to trap date is unwilling to tolerate it.  Counter Point - Don't date single moms. They refuse to parent their children.  2. We don’...

Women - You have to be at least 6 feet tall, be ripped, make a 6 figure salary and be charming, raise my 3 children, and work to get with this. Remember guys, women aren't capable of living you for who you are.  Women love you for what you can do. 

From Roosh V:   7 Things I Require In The Future Mother Of My Child . Here are the 7 things - 1. She must be between 18-25 years old.  2. She must have fewer than 3 prior sexual partners, but a virgin is preferred. 3. Her physical attractiveness should be about a 7. 4. Her skin tone should be within 2 shades of myself. 5. She must be feminine. 6. She must want to be a traditional stay-at-home mother. 7. She must believe in God.  I would say that any man who wants a wife, would do well to require these 7 Things of his prospective spouse. If a woman does not meet all of these requirements, then do not marry her, and do not have children with her. Marriage is too risky for men these days - there is virtually no advantage for a man to get married.  But women who hear this often prickles at the idea of men not getting married. Maybe because it upsets their "apple cart" of a free ride through life? So, women, this article is for you! If a woman wants to consider...

Recently, I came across what is titled "Leykis 101." To be sure, I'd read and heard plenty by Tom Leykis. Nevertheless, I hadn't been as familiar with the codification of these rules.  So, here goes: Rules ALL men should live by: 1. NEVER, EVER date a single mother. 2. Never do what you don't want to do. You make the money, you decide where you are going and what you are doing. 3. Don't ask a women what she wants to do. 4. Never tell a women how much money you make. 5. Don't EVER date co-workers! 6. Never answer the phone on the weekend. 7. Never spend more than $40 on a date. 8. NEVER approach a woman in a club who has her girlfriends with her. 9. If you are not getting laid by the 3rd date, dump her and move on. 10. No spooning, no cuddling, no staying over. Get in, get out! 11. Never be in a committed relationship UNTIL you are 25 or really ready to settle down. There's not a lie in the bunch of them.  

Where to start with all of this derp? How about this... What women don't understand is this: Nobody earns money for him. Nobody takes the risks on the job for him.  Nobody cares for his feelings on anything.  Nobody caters to his needs or wants in life but himself. A man is instantly looked at as someone who needs to "man up" - no help, no guidance, and people fighting against him every step of the way.  Women, read Proverbs 31 and Ephesians 5: 22-24. Live them.  Emerge in your natural role and you'll be more content for it.  

Damaged Goods learns the hard way that high value men don't want to marry   damaged goods . In this postmodern society, too many women who are a "4" think they deserve a man who is a "9." It doesn't work that way.

A delusional ex-wife fails to learn the most important lesson of marriage. And yet, she directly alludes to it four times. From   this article  - If we were having sex, he didn't give me a hard time about buying myself a new shirt. If we were having sex, he did things around the house willingly. If we were having sex, he acted like he liked me more. If we were having sex, he complimented me, the way I looked and how I mothered. If we weren't having sex, that all went away. He said it was because he felt neglected, unhappy and ignored. Contrast that with this statement - He just wanted to feel like a man. But it wasn't my job to make him feel like a man. If he couldn't look at me and see a wife who loved him, birthed his three kids, cared for him, and felt fulfilled and thankful, but who just needed to not feel pressured to give him an orgasm every other night, then I couldn't make him see all he had. A woman's worth goes way beyond how much sex she'...

A reader asked where I found the above meme. It was first used on this blog   for this article ; however, it originates elsewhere.  And that's the best part of it.  The original blog post where the meme came from is actually a fantastic post.  In fact, it was so good, that the FB page of the blog has over 20k followers, and that post on FB generated thousands of likes and comments.  Naturally,  a number of the comments were hateful. Any time you tell the truth, someone hates it (usually the person for whom it is most true!). So here is the article, " Men Prefer Debt Free Virgins Without Tattoos " by the blog, The Transformed Wife : Do you know how much more attractive debt-free virgins (without tattoos) are to young men? Unfortunately, there are so few of these types of young women anymore because of the high costs of college (debt) and sexual promiscuity even within those in the church. As believers in Jesus Christ, we need to live in a way that is plea...

The Rifleman pride himself on being a classically masculine man. Of course, #Libtards , feminists, and other idiots frequently refer to this as "toxic masculinity." But how toxic can it truly be, if the feminists want that very thing? As an example, the following data points exist from a feminist who is friends with the Rifleman's younger sister. This individual is in her late 30s, has two children (from different men, of course), and an ongoing series of failed relationships.  Naturally, she unfriended the Rifleman on Facebook a few years ago, due to a different of opinion on child support. Here are some statement she is made about the rifleman, as well as some interactions over the years: "So immature!!!" This was said when she was in her early teens, and the Rifleman was in college. "Your brother has really calmed down!" This statement was made just a few years after the above statement. The Rifleman had married the same girl he was dating when...

Hard Times create strong men. Strong men create Good Times. Good Times create weak men. Weak men create hard times. The Rifleman has given his  review of   Cobra Kai. Recently, The Rifleman came across  this review . Pretty much everything in the review was correct. And viewing the original Karate Kid, along with the Cobra Kai series, in light of the above statement, yielded this revelation: Hard Times create strong men. Daniel experience is hard times in the original movie. With the help of Mr. Miyagi, Daniel is able to force himself into a strong man. This enables him to face his problem. Strong men create Good Times. In the space of time between the original movie, and the series, Daniel is able to create good times for himself and his family. Likewise, after the Reagan Era, the US experience plenty of good times. Good Times create weak men. The good times mentioned above I've clearly created a society of weak men. This is shown very obviously...

From this post : if you were looking to exterminate a people, by that I mean destroy their culture and identity, the first thing you would do is put the women to work.